Dr Julie Smith | Psychologist on Instagram: "👉 The last one is something every people pleaser should know. It certainly changed the way I live for the better. Being a good person and standing up for yourself are not opposites. In fact, in order to truly live out your own definition of being a good person, it is essential to be able to advocate for yourself. The reason is that you are not always dealing with people who want the best for you or care what the outcomes are for you. 👉 I could talk